When the day is long and the world gets loud, let me be the warmth you return to.
When you tire from being strong and brave, let me be the comfort that supports you.
When doubts arise and you question your path, let me be the constant that reassures you.
When you make mistakes or grow regrets, let me share your burden, and listen, not judge.
Let me be there for you through the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the pretty and the ugly.
Let me be your strength, your passion, your inspiration.
For you are my sun, my moon, and all of my stars…
Let me, light up your life.
If I were less IT literate and always needed support…
If I were less self-medicating and always needed looking after…
If I were emotionally weaker and always needed comforting…
If I were less independent and always needed someone to lean on…
Would the universe perhaps then conjure up the man that I needed?
Is that why I am still alone?
Because I am better than fine,
I am thriving on my own?
But I don’t want a man who needs to be needed.
I don’t want a man who craves to be a saviour.
I don’t want a man who seeks a weakling.
I don’t want a man who settles for an inferior.
I have an intense, passionate, all-encompassing love for that man,
who sees me as I am.
who wants to take on the challenge of reciprocating this love.
A man who wants a partner in life,
Someone to face challenges with,
Someone to confide their weakness in,
Someone to inspire and be inspired by.
I want a man who loves this world, together we will bring it more joy than ever.
I want a man who has passion, in more ways than one it will resonate within me.
I want a man who digs deep, because I expect him to respond to my big questions.
I want a man who more than anything, is kind to others and kind to himself.
I want a man who I will be proud to call mine,
and I know he will be proud to have this bouncy loving free spirit to call his :)
P.S. Yes. In case you were wondering, totally inspired by your lack of IT skills miss Mochi…… XD
P.P.S. Yea totally had this in draft ready to go for a lazy day :P
What would you want to be most appreciated for (by your partner)?
A question I posed myself (and a friend) yesterday. To clarify, given the choice, what quality or trait in your personality would you want your partner to love the most?
When two people decide to settle down together, inevitably, they will strongly influence each other. You can’t help but become who they see you as, or want to see you become – that’s just what happens. You’ll be encouraged to become what they like, and discouraged from displaying behaviour or thoughts that don’t align. Am pretty sure I read somewhere that we even subliminally take in thoughts and feelings of the person next to us while we’re sleeping too… Which means that if your partner thought you were a great person with unlimited potentials, you are very likely to succeed; and vice versa if they think you will never achieve anything, you’ll have a very difficult uphill battle to fight.
So, to start answering my own question… Read More…